It’s okay to feel lost.
You may not know it at the time, but this could be the best thing to happen to you.
But because we see it as bad, we can only focus on what we see, and we’ll never be able to see what great thing can come from is.
What does it mean to feel lost?
I have been there. I lived it from the moment I woke up until I was able to fall asleep, and that ran for a good year. When you feel lost, seeing life past tomorrow becomes difficult. And the next day. It’s having no idea of any direction you have in life. You feel stuck. And it feels like you’ll never get out. You don’t tell anybody because you attach shame to it. You believe you are a lesser version of what you should be. You don’t know how you got here. But here you are. It’s hard to admit so you live with it in silence. It feels like this shit is the end of you. It sucks.
But actually, it’s pretty fucking cool. This is what we don’t see because we let ourselves be comfortable with our own inadequacies. We don’t see the rewrite, the next chapter, the epic rise, the turnaround and transformation. We don’t see the sequel. This is your story.
You become extremely self-aware. This is a fact. You think you see nothing passed tomorrow, but the truth is you see everything. You see what is holding you back. You know what will bring you joy. You know what you can’t let go off. You know your lies. You know when you’re lying to yourself. It’s that feeling you get that gives you tremendous stress and anxiety. Except, you find it impossible to do anything about it. Another lie. So you need to believe that you have no hope. This is where the comfortableness starts to no longer be factor. This is where life begins to hurt. And because you can no longer hide in your comfort, you start to get very clear about a few things. Now you get extremely mindful and create that vision that will change you. Find out who you are and get ready to deal with a lot of fucking uncomfortableness because changing your life is hard as fuck. But then you become the guy or girl who was kind of fucked up and completely lost, who turned everything around and started a million dollar multi-media-company, or created a fashion line or wrote a book that sells millions in the first year.
Dear world, I can’t seem to get the fuck out of my own way. Page one starts right now. Dear world: I can’t seem to get the fuck out of my own way.
Now you start thinking about change. It’s an opportunity to go internal and think about the things you’ve always dreamed about doing in your life but you were to scared and had too many fears around it. This is a chance to begin to love yourself.
This was the best thing to ever happen to me. Cause I took the path of going internal and in the process I found out who I really was, and write the story of my life that I have always wanted. I respect the time I felt lost. I use it today as fire to keep fucking going.